Facts vs. Feelings ∞The 9th Dimensional Arcturian Council
“Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.
We have been examining the different ways that you all communicate with each other, and we see that there are some definite areas where you could improve the effectiveness of your communication. First of all, we suggest that when you are talking with someone, you really listen to what the other person is saying. Now, you may be eager to express your point of view, but it is also important to give the other person the chance to speak and be heard.
Now if you are in the midst of a conversation where you are in disagreement with the other person, many of you attempt to prove that your way of thinking, or looking at a situation, is the right one. And that assumes that there is only one right way to see something. If you feel strongly about something, then rather than trying to prove that your point of view is the right one, talk about how you feel. Talking about your emotions is something that brings you closer to another person.
Talking about facts never will bring you closer to another person, but talking about your feelings has the potential to elicit compassion and it opens the other person up to share what he or she is feeling. And then you have real intimacy. There is a lot of polarity on your world today, and much of it is fueled by politics. When you see that everyone’s perspective is coming from their experiences and their feelings, there’s a better chance of bringing sides together.
And that’s what you are here to do at this time. You are here to depolarize your society, and you’re not going to get there by arguing and trying to prove that your perspective is the right one. You also need to allow other people to have their perspective if you want to be more like Source Energy.
Source Energy allows everything to be as it is, and beings who are ascending to the fifth dimension, it is much better for you to look to the Source Energy perspective and hold that as best you can. And the best place to start is with each other.
We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.”
