Brenda’s Blog via Brenda Hoffman, January 8th

Dear Ones,

So it is that you are preparing to open your beings to the next transition phase. Many of you worry that you have not yet created your earth security dream. You will. For it is time to move on.

Such is not to belittle your earth security dream, but instead to inform you that you have moved beyond earth in so many ways. You will inform yourself of that truth once you celebrate your earth graduation with the creation of your earth security dream.

To create your earth dream, you need to love yourself enough to allow the impossible. For your earth dream is not only an indicator to you that you have graduated from your earth learnings, but also a beacon of possibilities for those wishing to love themselves as much as all that there is loves them.

Some of you remain caught in the earth tangle of, “I must not love myself as much as and certainly not more than I love others.” Of course, those of you who have created your earth dream know that such is exactly what is required. A deep commitment to self-love and self-care – beyond any commitment to others in any form.

Even reading those last words give many of you pause. For your earth need to place everyone before you is so deeply ingrained that loving yourself, as much as loving others, continues to feel bad, wrong or evil. Not because it is, but because you remain tied to earth dictates. You have not yet joined your Universal being.

That last statement is not to scold you, but instead a reminder of how important learning to truly love yourself is. If your earth dream includes saving others and it feels right within your being – so be it. But if that feeling is tied to shoulds, have tos or any earth sentiment other than self-love, you will continue to spin your wheels instead of creating your earth dream.

Allow yourself a few seconds of pleasure by imagining what you would do if your finances were unlimited, you were with your dream partner or you were surrounded by that which gives you personal joy. Do others quickly become part of that picture or do you first reward yourself with trinkets, baubles, homes, romantic love, etc? The correct answer is that you reward yourself first in whatever fashion feels most right.

Do you see how you continue to be tied to the earth dictates of shoulds? “I shouldn’t be selfish. I should think of others before buying silly baubles and trinkets.”

If you continue to believe those last statements, you have not yet allowed yourself to enter fully into new you. For it is wonderful that you are so loving of others – but that is something you have been trained to do. It is not from the heart – it is from your conscience, your mind. “What will others think if I just reward myself?” What indeed?

This is a difficult concept for many to grasp but as is true for any continuum, you must move to the opposite side of where you focussed previously to find the middle. Doing so is no more selfish or different from refusing the roles of caretaker or victim that you worked through previously in your quest for new you.

It is time to place yourself front and center. So you will. And when you do, you will create your earth dream and be fully prepared to move to your next transition phase.

Indeed, why would others follow your lead if your earth dream creation were merely a repeat of what was already available of the 3D earth?

Your earth dream creation is meant to be new, fresh, fun and surprising. Surprising enough that others take note. And so it will be.

For once you dare to love yourself enough to create as does a little child with little regard for what others want or need, just thoughts of fun and joy, you will move to your next transition phase.

Your next phase is about daring to love yourself enough to explore those areas not of your earth being that give you joy and provide the Universes with more information – a much larger Akashic record if you will.

Such a thought does not seem that difficult does it? But then, neither did learning to fully love yourself until you attempted to do so. For your next phase requires complete freedom from taking care of others of the earth, from rescuing anyone, from being a victim of others’ needs or wishes. Complete freedom to be you. And such will only happen if you fully love yourself.

So we have returned to the basic principal of fully loving yourself, the foundation of all that you are and will continue to be forever more.

Just be in all your self-loving glory. You are not selfish. You are not evil. You are merely returning to your childhood visions of creations for the sake of creation – not for anyone else. And so it is. So be it. Amen.

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