The phrase, “You’re not alone.” has been bantered about the past few years. Even though we, of the Universes, are dedicated to your growth, we are not you. Nor is anyone else. So in a sense, you are alone, not in terms of your actions, but in your emotions.
No matter how many of us are of your Universal support team, you are alone in the physical world. For likely, even those you love seem to be in such a different place emotionally, you cannot understand them or perhaps, wish to be around them.
So it is you feel alone – and frightened. For you never expected to feel thus when you initiated your journey of self-love. You assumed you would be welcomed by other humans with like interests and needs. Such has yet to happen. For as you extend further from your transition start-point, you feel more alone.
Of course, we could inform you that such is a mirage that has little to do with reality. In truth, loneliness has everything to do with your current reality. Think in terms of starting a new school looking for indicators of the correct behavior and words. In this phase of your transition, there are none to observe or to place your feelings of rightness, for you are the first to enter this school. There are no others like you in this new school. So it is you try this or that outfit, mock how others act, or try to relate to no avail. For even though others think you are in the right place with the right actions and words – for you are used to 3D pretending – your inner-compass is telling you that all is not well. You are lonely.
“Did I work this diligently to be alone, to be even more isolated than I was before I started this arduous transition journey? Why am I so alone?” Questions with no answers. For you want us to tell you that friends will miraculously appear tonight or tomorrow. Instead, we must inform you that you are the trendsetters. Something that does not feel accurate now, but will shortly.
You are no longer a follower, you are a leader.
Just as was true for most who invented everything from the wheel to computers, others are perhaps pooh-poohing your new being. For you are not like those with whom they are comfortable.
The difference between you and 3D inventors is that you are more prepared for this isolation than you realize. For if you note your reactions to others, you will discover you are isolating you instead of the traditional 3D action of indicating who is in or out of society.
You are creating your isolation. If we were to tell you that all you had to do to increase your friendship base would be to fit into society, you would laugh at us. For you already know how to do that.
You no longer choose to be in the circle of social rightness.
Perhaps you remember a recent time when you participated in a social group only to discover their conversation was boring. For you are a trendsetter for the first time since you entered the earth in any lifetime.
In past earth lives, many of you played roles such as a king or queen, political or religious leader, or wealthy being, which would seem to indicate you set the social trends. We beg to differ for you entered earth in that life as an adjunct to what was in place socially. You ensured you were in the right place at the right time. For if you were to study earth history, you would discover that even though leaders were at the forefront of rightness for the times, they were not the creator of those times. They slipped into the right spot for those times.
You, on the other hand, are now creating new social mores. Not because you need or even want to, but because such is part of your role in this new earth. The current social climate does not fit your new being, as can be noted through your disinterest with most social groups.
You are creating a new society of love. Something those following do not yet understand. So at times, you will find yourself snapping at those you love dearly knowing they are soon to follow. Much as you probably did with your younger siblings who could not understand your interest in dating or activities with your friends instead of playing with them as you once did.
You are perhaps wondering what this new society you are creating will look like. All we can relay is that you are creating this society as a result of your new self-love and joy needs.
Perhaps you will seem silly or frivolous to those following until they achieve a similar growth – or not. It does not matter. All that matters is that you know you are progressing exactly as you wish, and we expected. Allowing you, even forcing you, to change the social milieu instead of changing yourself to fit in as you have done all other earth lives.
What gives you joy? That is your only guideline as you shift earth from fear to love – one day at a time. And yet more rapidly than you now imagine. For 2020 is your new life in a new world. So be it. Amen.
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