You no longer have the ability to pander to the needs of others. This is something you have discovered over many months of trying to do so without the results you hoped for. For those people you attempt to help may not do as you command or demand, and yet, they continue to ask for help. Which results in your exhaustion and little or no change in their lives. So it is you dropped into the 3D caretaking zone.
You were once able to brush off such interactions for you were fully enmeshed in your 3D “helper” mode. Now that you are no longer of 3D, such interactions merely exhaust you. You are attempting to be in two worlds at the same time, and such is no longer possible.
Your caretaking role has become painful.
But of course, those yet of 3D cannot understand your reluctance to tell them what to do or to listen to the same story for the 100th time with little evidence they want to change.
So it is you are discovering your new path, sometimes inch by inch. For listening to the woes of others used to be delightful.
You continue to contend that you have not changed, that you are who you always were. We beg to differ.
Your direction, your joys, even your food preferences are changing daily. But until you note something evident to all concerned, you will continue to believe you are just as you always have been.
What difference does it make if you believe you are of 3D or 5D? Your thoughts and beliefs create your reality. So if you believe something is not possible, it is not. But, if you believe you are different with new directions, powers, and needs, so it will be.
It is time for you to claim your inner-power, which merely means shifting your beliefs from “I can’t” to “I easily can.” A simple form of self-hypnosis if you will, but such a dramatic belief change that your life will never again be as it was.
For most of you are trying to dance between 3D fear and 5D belief in yourself. The two are not at all similar or even possible at the same time. You need to acknowledge you are no longer of 3D no matter how frequently someone tries to pull you back into what was for you but is no longer.
Most often, when 3D humans attempt to claw their way out of their pain through treatment, a move, or ending a relationship, those yet of 3D want that person to return to what was. For if their friend or relative changes, so must their expectations or actions.
ThreeD is not a change format. For even though change is the dominant growth pattern in all dimensions, 3D does not encourage such if someone else must change also. Sameness is honored. Change is not.
So it is you remain deeply enmeshed in hoping for the sameness of your 3D earth lives. FiveD and beyond is filled with change. In truth, change is the keyword in all dimensions beyond 3D. So as you change, those within your circle will likely attempt to stop you from doing so.
By the same token, those you love, who are also changing, might frighten you. For even though you are expecting some personal changes, you are not expecting changes in others.
You are in a quandary. You feel and act differently. But as you do so, you want those around you to remain as they were. For you do not have the energy to watch them change and grow – and do the same yourself.
You are exhausted both by your changes and those of others dear to you.
And as you attempt to return to some “normalcy” by coaching those deeply entrenched in 3D who do not wish to change, you become even more exhausted.
You do not necessarily know who you are now, and you most certainly do not have the social skills you were once proud of as either an introvert or extrovert. So everyone and everything feels awkward, uncomfortable, or wrong despite your best attempts to fit in.
You are not who you used to be, and you are rapidly discovering that those following are not either. The only humans acting as they always have are those of 3D, and even they are shifting from slightly irritating to completely uncomfortable for you. What is happening to you and your world?
You are shifting, and so are millions of others. No one and nothing is as it was. Everything is new within you. And you are discovering that the same is true for your outer world. What was is no more. What will be is just forming. You feel as if you are in “No man’s (persons) land.”
This pain, this uncertainly will force you to create that which you did not know was possible in 3D. And so it is that your inner-power will come to the forefront even if such a thought is uncomfortable now. Within days, you will start forming ideas that are not like anything you have thought of or believed in before. For you are shifting from the fear of change to the knowingness of your next phase – that of using your inner-directed power.
Such is so because all that created your 3D life is no longer valid. It is time to create from the new. Something that has seemed too frightening to contemplate. That is until that which is known is too uncomfortable to live in or with. So be it. Amen.
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